Silent Musings

May 31
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I woke up before 6 this morning.

It was a still morning. The neighbors were asleep, and so were the birds that normally chirp and welcome in the day. Even the hum of the air conditioner wasn’t the omnipresent entity it usually is. 

I woke up on my own a quarter of a day earlier than I normally do: I can’t remember the last time I saw this time of day as being the first thing I see after I wake instead of the last thing I see before I sleep. I don’t know why I was up. I have no reason to. I had an exhausting day yesterday, and for all intents and purposes should be in bed until at least noon.

But I was awake. I woke up on my own, not from a dream, or an alarm, or anything else. I don’t even know how I woke up; I was just awake.

And the first thought, the only thought, the most aching and persistent thought was that in the empty space beside me, you weren’t there. In that empty space beside me, you needed to be there. I could almost see your half naked form sleeping soundly. Perhaps you’d be snoring. Perhaps you’d be shielding your eyes from the light with an arm. Perhaps even, you’d be holding me. But the emptiness was too pervading, and soon all I saw was the empty bed once more.

I know that space isn’t going to be filled for a few good years. That realization brings about a pang of longing. I know it will be a long wait and I know there’s nothing else I can do. But it gives me hope that, after all that waiting, the bed will never have to feel this empty again.

And perhaps one day, I will see your half naked form sleeping soundly, perhaps snoring, perhaps shielding your eyes from the light with an arm, and perhaps even holding me. Perhaps, in another still moment like this one, I will watch you sleep and I will think about how lucky I am to finally have you at my side. Then I will slide myself beside you and lay my head on your chest, listening to you breathe and feeling your heart beat.

And maybe, in the same way I didn’t know how I woke up, I wouldn’t know that I’d already fallen back asleep.

May 10
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It’s the far-future talk that excites me ‘cause that’s the future I have with you. :)

Apr 19
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I used to be afraid to fall in love, because I was afraid of things not working out and losing that someone forever. I was afraid of the pain. I was afraid to get hurt.

But now I am in love. And it does hurt. But it’s a good kind of hurt. It’s the pain that reminds me that I can still feel, and it’s a pain that reminds me that I have something I can’t stand to lose.

And if this won’t last forever, then so be it. But I know that I will look back at this time in my life with nothing but the fondest memories and gratitude, and hopefully without having lost anyone along the way.

I used to be afraid, and I still am. But staying afraid and unmoving is a bigger loss than daring to love ever will be.

Apr 18
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orangegummi:

This picture has a story:
I originally wanted to take a picture of the cat on the right. It was sleeping and stretched out on its side, enjoying the expanse of bench. I didn’t have a camera, so I took my phone. By the time I raised it to take a picture, the cat woke up. I waited for it to fall asleep again as it was starting to do, but something startled it awake. I was about to give up when the other cat jumped on the bench and gave this one a kiss. I didn’t catch that shot but the cat on the left gave the cat on the right another one.
I can only hope that one day, I’m lucky enough to have something like this happen to me. :)

I wouldn’t mind waking up startled and afraid if every time was met with a kiss.

orangegummi:

This picture has a story:

I originally wanted to take a picture of the cat on the right. It was sleeping and stretched out on its side, enjoying the expanse of bench. I didn’t have a camera, so I took my phone. By the time I raised it to take a picture, the cat woke up. I waited for it to fall asleep again as it was starting to do, but something startled it awake. I was about to give up when the other cat jumped on the bench and gave this one a kiss. I didn’t catch that shot but the cat on the left gave the cat on the right another one.

I can only hope that one day, I’m lucky enough to have something like this happen to me. :)

I wouldn’t mind waking up startled and afraid if every time was met with a kiss.

Apr 16
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Sometimes, I just want to grab you by the shoulders and shake you and scream, “TALK TO ME, TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL! SAY SOMETHING! … ANYTHING.”

(Just so I know you’re there.)

Apr 14
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Because you dried my tears and cried your own.

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Because you kissed me when my lips were dry.

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Because you held my hands when my palms were sweaty.

Apr 13
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  • Josh: where is she?
  • Me: who is she?
  • Josh: eleanor or something
  • Me: rigby?
  • Me: dude wait for her, shes like from the beatles
  • Josh: HOLY SHIT
  • Josh: she's so lonely
Apr 12
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You know what I realized? It’s not that I stopped liking you. What reason have I to, anyway? You’re still the same person I fell in like with. That’s the same sense of humor that charmed me, the same smile, the same laugh, the same you. None of that has changed. You haven’t become any less of a guy. The only thing that’s changed, really, is that the thought of you and me together has finally faded.